fionagoddess:

Jessica Lange by Larry Busacca.

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sexualbae:

won’t drink lukewarm water but i’ll put another person’s genitals in my mouth

Particular Jealousy and Persistent Jealousy

polynotes:

Two Sorts of Jealousy

When we talk about dealing with jealousy, there’s sort of two different things we can talk about. We can talk more about dealing with a particular instance of feeling jealous, or we can talk more about jealousy as a persistent feeling.

Particular Jealousy

For dealing with feeling jealousy in a particular moment, my advice tends to focus on letting out emotions in positive ways (like journaling and exercising) or creating distractions (like hanging out with other people). Asking a partner for some reassurance can be good sometimes too.

I think that stuff can be a big help in getting through a specific day (like if you feel bad because your partner is out with someone else), and I think it can work again and again in those instances, but I also think there’s more we can do

Persistent Jealousy

I think persistent jealousy is something that be addressed on some bigger levels.

Some jealousy, I think, is deeply rooted in insecurity and self-esteem. That’s stuff you can work on, and stuff you should work on even if you’re relationships isn’t highlighting the issue.

I also believe you can cultivate different ways of looking at things and reframe how you see stuff. I try to see my relationships in positives as much as possible. I try to focus on what I like about my partners, and what they like about me.

But these things do take time and practice. Nonmonogamy is often a pretty big shift in how people are thinking about their relationships. It can take some adjustment.

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  • Me: maybe i should just delete my blog
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tattoosforguys:

Eagle tattoos are one of the tattoos that reflect strength and wisdom. Here are 47 cool eagle tattoos ideas… I love #27 the most! http://dopily.com/47-cool-eagle-tattoos-ideas/image credit: 9gag.com

tattoosforguys:

Eagle tattoos are one of the tattoos that reflect strength and wisdom. Here are 47 cool eagle tattoos ideas… I love #27 the most! http://dopily.com/47-cool-eagle-tattoos-ideas/




image credit: 9gag.com
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  • my mom: don't ever ever meet up with strangers from the internet
  • me at 12: omg mom do you think i'm really that stupid i would never do that ugh
  • me now: so do you guys wanna move here and like live under my bed or something
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dobraeva:

*puts my ipod on shuffle and skips every song until i get one i was hoping for*

watchthe-waves:

If you touch my butt while we kiss then you win at life

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i stared into the abyss and the abyss got sicker

nietzsche all on his mouth like liquor

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lsdzeppelin:

giving guys boners is empowering and nothing else matters 

chilloutmotherfuckr:

booty made out of straws so you can SUCK MY ASS

chilloutmotherfuckr:

booty made out of straws so you can SUCK MY ASS

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mediamattersforamerica:

Fox spent much of its VMA coverage questioning Beyonce’s ability to promote feminism while being "extremely sexual."  

Megyn Kelly labeled Beyonce’s message and lyrics as “skanky,” while a FoxNews.com article claimed the singer “seemed to ensure her behind was the focus on each song, all the while educating young viewers about feminism.”

On The Five, Fox hosts suggested “she’s auditioning for a future husband,” and Greg Gutfeld announced that ”the greatest thing about pop culture is convincing women that acting like strippers is empowering.” 

What Fox failed to recognize is that expressing sexuality does not automatically remove a woman’s right to discuss equality. Instead, the network righteously slut-shamed Beyonce and used her performance as basis to attack feminism as a whole. In reality, such policing of women’s sexuality has harmed progress toward equality. The very same mindset has been used to dismiss women’s need to access contraception, and blame rape survivors for their own assaults. 

If anyone is going to be shamed, it should be Fox and its irresponsible coverage of women’s issues. 

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